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Stop waiting and LIVE for NOW x

Stop waiting and LIVE for NOW x

I was blown away by a post a friend shared on her newsfeed a couple weeks ago.  I had actually missed it, but my husband had picked it up and asked if I had read the post about ‘time waiting for no man’.  He knows me very well – I love a bit of a motivational read.  Especially on a rainy Monday night –

This  really stuck with me –

At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life.”

Not long  after I read this there was the horrendous news about Paris which also gave a firm reminder of the many daily tragedies that face our world.   I think of all the innocent souls whose journey here ended far too soon.  They would be busy making plans for the future having no idea what lay ahead.

I am guilty at times of wishing away the here and now.  I look forward to Charlie’s nap time so I can relax or get things done, to the days he doesn’t need to nap and I am free from the worry of routine, I look forward to the days both kids sleep all night AND lie in.  I look forward to getting fitter and being able to run faster and longer.  I look forward to Friday – what about Monday why can’t that be great too?  It’s good to have goals and to be excited by  the future – but what about the here and now?  There are so many days I fail to see the beauty of the moment we are in.  I often look forward to my first kid free coffee of the day (when Charlie naps and Bonnie is at nursery) yet so often I gulp it down.  I should stop, sit down, enjoy the smell, relax and savour the quiet #wakeupandsmellthecoffee.


The other night I missed Charlie take four steps as I was rushing around – a lot of the time when Daddy gets home I see it as his turn to do kids stuff and my time to do adult stuff.  This is healthy but some days I need to just stop.  To enjoy watching Scott dancing and making the kids laugh, to enjoy building towers as a four rather than a three.  I need to pinch myself and remember how lucky we are to be warm, to be safe.  To be alive.

This post I read that cold, Monday night has stuck with me.  I know it’s not realistic to walk around seeing the good in every moment of the day.  I am however going to try and make time to enjoy the little things today – right here right now x



  1. Scott
    November 20, 2015 / 5:13 pm

    Very true wee bubs. Join the boogie. I’ll teach ya :),xxx

    • November 20, 2015 / 5:15 pm

      Wish I had energy for boogie now lemsip instead of wine on Friday night #gutted xx

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